Today EJ and I decided to make new friends .
A couple of friends back we meet a lovely lady and her little girl , at playgroup . We had got chatting and turned out she also was a Newley single mum !!!
We clicked , and could have talked for hours . With no time to switch numbers a quick ' add me on Facebook' .......
Facebook friends and quick shall we meet on Saturday , a new friend was made .
Too other people it may seem strange I would write a post about this !!
But you see when you've been going to playground , made friends with people . Then all of a sudden something happens in your marriage/reason ship .
No matter how hard you try , no matter how much you do wanted it too , there because a distance a wedge .
Without knowing you put people in and odd situation , should they mention the break up , should they invite you to things .
I'm not saying everybody and am no way trying to insult my friends who are married and have kids .
Most of the time it's men, people will ask a innocent question , and you feel out of place .
You look at people's wedding fingers are they married , will they judge me ...
So when you meet a person you click with with kids who is in almost the same situation as you .... It's a bit like Christmas !!!
It's a,most a bit like for 5 minutes of you day someone is in the same boat as , and for the 5 minutes your world seems ok again :-).
Or maybe for them 5 minutes it givres you sent gets to pick yourself and get on with you journey !!
So here is to new friends :-). !!
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